Masdoom Rasmi
3al 3adeh nazel nam be hal omeh, bs this time a’7oko masdoom rasmi… most of my posts are oriented on small stuff, guys loving shawerma, or keaf ½ banat el ballad shayfeen 7alhom 3al fady o homeh ma3ateeb! hala2 today’s post is going to be about a bad habit that Jordanian’s developed through the years, let me simplify it 7ata netfaham o netla3 be outcome mo7taram…
hala2 ya jama3ah shaqfeh marqat, it’s either you whistle, or simply call her eash ya b6ah, ya ‘7asseh or even ya karazeh, wila betshid sha3ratak o betdrob ele jambak, ya3ni lazim tet7arkash o etdwen 3leeha, as a part of this community I used to do that too, but in a nicer way, ya3ni e.g. “baqoolha esma3i 3eneiki 7elween, bs 3enik el yameen a7la min el shmmal!” ya3ni o talaween… most of the times you get a good simle, o ebta’7odlak babooj! Even el banat eza maraq shab, la ho wala 7ata ahlo beslamo, ya3ni ana mara wa7deh be2oly eash ya banoos ya abo kalabeez! Ana a’7dt-ha broo7 ryadyeh la2ny dayman bat7arkash bil banat…
The above humor is what we follow and try to keep up with in Jordan, what shocked me ino I got a confusing feedback from the other side, yesterday I went for a walk with my best friend and her sister 3ndna bil 7ara, o men tna7ty ro7et fata7et hal mawdoo3… el feedback ino girls hates such humor, o lama she smiles o heek betkoon 3m ebtetkafa el shar a3deh minshan tesebha bi 7alha! They told me that it sounds jnoon if they go for a walk, or eza nezlo 3a jabal el hussien, ya 7beeby hato hat 3lay et2olo jabal el 7ossen laly ‘7alafny! In the exact words one of the girls said: “nefsi yekoon m3 rashash o anzil o a6o’7 shabbab hal balad!” I replied: “ino malik ya binit enhabalti…” she replied: “ino jareb etkoon binit o tenzil 3a jabal el hussien menshan teshtry pants wila shirts, shoof sho beseer feek!” suddenly I felt their pain, at the beginning I thought eno 3ala 3adet el neswan el 7abeh qobeh, bs they told me stories shayabat rasy… 6b ya jama3ah el 7aky o yalla masheenah, bs oset el ba9ba9ah, 3eeeb ya e’7wan wala 3eeb, 6b et’7ayal wa7ad 3emil heek m3 o’7tak, ma ebtl3n emo 3a abo, hada eza 3alaqto min balash ne7ki…
B3raf fe menkom bs bedha el shabbab yeba9be9o, bs el majority banat 3alam o nas! I don’t want to take a lot of your time, in addition we all go to work, ya3ni stop wasting your time o 7alelo ratebkom… ana 3alay batalet zat el 7aky, wala eny batla3 dayman be nahfat.. bs for the most part I feel sorry for the girls, 3eeb ya e’7wan 3ala oset el ba9ba9a, balash menha… ostor 3a banat el 3alam allah bokra bostor 3a banatak… I knew that a minority does such acts, bs it turned out ino la shoffer taxi, wala 7ata control coseter ‘7a6 el bayader ela nazzel ba9ba9ah o qelet 7ayah! I will start with my friends, you start too, let’s work together on a better community!
